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The Way You Motivate Yourself Matters

Thursday, March 1st, 2012

Motivation is the key to success in direct sales, as in pretty much anything. If you're not feeling motivated, it makes it hard to take action, and without action, your goals remain unfulfilled. But did you know that certain types of motivation can actually hinder rather than help you?

Let me explain. You may have heard me say (or read on this blog before) that energy flows where attention goes.

If you're motivated by what you don't want to occur or what you're afraid will happen if you don't take action, you're focused on moving away from that vision, and often times the action you take is more difficult because of it. There's no joy in running away from something, or feeling like you have to keep moving just to stay ahead of what you're afraid might happen. And since everything starts in thought before it becomes form, think about what you're creating when you're motivated by what you don't want. By activating a picture (and usually a feeling) of what you don't want in your subconscious, and then moving away from it so that it won't happen, you're actually creating it and giving it strength.

If, on the other hand, you can create a very clear picture of what you do want, decide how it would look, sound, and feel to have it, and then start moving toward that goal, the action is motivated by a completely different feeling and picture. It feels good to move in a positive direction toward something that you want. That makes the actions you take much easier. Plus, when you're focusing your energy on what you want, you activate the Law of Attraction. I find when I can very clearly do this, the people, circumstances, and even solutions I have no idea are out there seem to find me. Simply by clearly focusing on my goal and visualizing how I'll feel once I have it.

Here are a few examples of mindset shifts you can make that will shift your motivation from moving away from to moving toward:

Change from: "I don't want to be broke and I have to be able to pay off my debt" to "I'm abundant and I know money is flowing to me as I work toward my business goals."

Change from: "I have to get more bookings or my business is going to dry up" to "I am a booking magnet and I love doing parties for all of my excited hosts."

Change from: "I'll never get everything on my to do list done. I have to work harder and longer to make it happen" to "I love taking positive action every single day with a clear plan and path to what I want to achieve."

It feels like magic and it may seem too simple, but it's really just an intentional way of opening up the flow (I call it unkinking the hose), getting out of your own way, and allowing what you need to flow to you.

One last thing. The quickest way to begin to shift from moving away from what you don't want to moving toward what you do want is to feel the feelings of already having whatever it is that you want. Just close your eyes for ten seconds a day and feel the amazing feelings of already having whatever goal you've set for yourself. As if it was real, right now. If you do nothing else and just do that, you'll be amazed at what starts to happen in your life and business.



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Julie Anne Jones is a direct sales corporate consultant, coach, and trainer, and the CEO of Julie Anne Jones, Inc. She is known for her authentic and easy-to-use scripting and specializes in specific systems, language, and tools for success in direct sales. To learn more about Julie Anne and her products and services, and to read her weekly blog posts, visit her at www.julieannejones.com.

What Are Your “Good Stories”?

Tuesday, February 7th, 2012
 

During my live events I talk a lot about deciding what you want and then creating an action plan for getting it. I also share a concept that I learned years ago from one of my mentors. I start by telling the audience this story.

There's a country in some tropical part of the world where they trade in live monkeys. They trap the monkeys by setting out closed cages right in the middle of where they come to feed each day. Inside each cage, the trappers place a whole banana. The slats of the cage are just large enough for the monkeys to carefully insert their flat hand into the cage and grab the banana. The slats aren't wide enough, however, for them to remove their hand when it's gripping a banana. That's generally how the trappers find the monkeys when they come to check the traps. With their hands clinging to the bananas, refusing to let go and doomed to capture. Occasionally, an enlightened monkey figures it out, decides the banana isn't worth it, let's go and says, "I'm outta here." But those monkeys are rare. It's just too difficult to let go of the banana for the majority of the monkeys.

Most of us have no trouble defining what we want, but when it comes to taking action, we cling to our excuses (just like the monkeys cling to those bananas) to justify not achieving our goals.

A good story is quite simply an excuse for why you were too tired, too busy, too overwhelmed, too broke, too sick, too distracted, too affected by the economy, etc. to actually make things happen. And here's the formula I share with my audience once they're clear about what "good stories" are and have identified their own:

A good story + no results ≠ RESULTS!!
(Remember that "not equal to" sign in grade school?)

If it's important enough to you, you'll find a way. If it's not, you'll find an excuse (or a good story). And by holding on to your good stories, you're literally staying trapped. So, right here, right now, I'd like you to consider what bananas you're clinging to, and whether or not you're willing to let go of them in order to free yourself to begin creating the life and business you truly want. Instead of finding a "good story" and settling for no results, see if you can find an action step that you could take that would move you in the direction of what you want. You'll be amazed at what will happen if you start to recognize and let go of your own "good stories."

And if you're brave and feel like sharing some of them below, I'd love that.



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Why I Love Dana Wilde

Thursday, February 2nd, 2012

There's so much going on in my business right now, and the most exciting thing is the opportunity I'm getting to reach more direct sellers and work with some inspiring and amazing people. Last year, one of those people was Dana Wilde, who contacted me about a really unique event she started called The Mind Aware Teleseminar Series and invited me to be a part of it.

That was a year ago, and a lot has happened since. Dana and I have become great friends and started our own mastermind group with 3 other amazing direct sales speakers (we call ourselves Team Advantage). I participated in both Mind Aware series last year, and now we're getting ready to start the third season, called "Practice Makes Progress."

I have to say that Dana is one of the most amazing, giving, positive people I've ever met, and that authenticity shines through in everything she does (including this series). She has blessed my life and business and I can't imagine either without her.

In case you haven't been introduced to Dana or The Mind Aware Series, It's a twice-weekly teletraining event that offers the perfect opportunity for network marketing professionals and party plan entrepreneurs to grab some fantastic education at NO CHARGE!!

Each one of the 24 guest trainers (including yours truly and some of the absolute best trainers in the industry) will be bringing their newest and freshest ideas to the table, and Dana will be interviewing them all. She has a knack for getting the greatest amount of information possible into each one hour time slot. And here's the best part – even if you can't make the live calls, Dana sends out a replay so you can listen when you have time within the next few days after each interview. She's the only one I've ever found who does that with a free tele-series like this.

I'm speaking on a brand new topic for me, "From Overwhelm to Organized" and I can't wait to share some very cool new ways to get your life and business organized. My call is on Thursday, April 12th.

There are 23 speakers besides me including: Dana Wilde, Belinda Ellsworth, Karen Phelps, Mary Christensen, Shari Hudspeth, Andrea Waltz, Pat Pearson, Shachena Gibbs, Sue Rusch, Karen Clark, Linda Sturdivant, Casey Eberhart, Lynsey Jones, Tammy Stanley, Deb Bixler, Becky Spieth, Lyndsey Baigent, Teresa Garrison, Julie Henderson, Anne Howie, and more. Wow!

Go ahead and click here to see the complete bios of these rock star trainers and get enrolled. You'll get access to lots of free gifts from all of us as well as some awesome pre-recorded teleseminars you can access immediately as soon as you sign up.

The teleseminar runs Every Tuesday & Thursday at 12:00 PM Eastern (11:00 AM Central, 9:00 AM Pacific) starting Tuesday, February 7th, 2012 (That's next week!)
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Hope to "see" you on the calls!