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	<title>Comments on: Hey, It&#039;s Not About You!</title>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 May 2010 17:21:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re speakin&#039; my language, Nicole (as always!) Love, love, love your insights. It&#039;s so obvious why you&#039;re successful, and you have so much to teach! Thanks for the input!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re speakin&#8217; my language, Nicole (as always!) Love, love, love your insights. It&#8217;s so obvious why you&#8217;re successful, and you have so much to teach! Thanks for the input!</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole Walker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole Walker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 May 2010 16:52:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always say there&#039;s a reason God gave us TWO ears and ONE mouth...so we can spend TWICE as much time listening as we do talking!&#160; Learn to listen&#160;at your&#160;parties and you&#039;ll find that identifying your next hostesses or team members gets REALLY easy.&#160; They&#160;are actually &quot;telling&quot; you exactly why they need your opportunty or to have a party if your listening.&#160; Doing too much talking creates confusion and a confused mind will shut down and say &quot;NOOOOOO!&quot;&#160; So listen...you&#039;ll probably be shocked at what you can learn (and sometimes things you didnt want or need to know) at a party!
In regards to coaching with your team...I love the phrase &quot;BE CURIOUS.&quot;&#160; Get curious and ask questions!&#160; I do it all the time... and actually use those words:&#160; &quot;I&#039;m curious...how many parties is a full schedule for you?&#160; I&#039;m curious, what is you average show attendence?&#160; I&#039;m curious, what is your heart telling yo to do?&quot;&#160; See how easy that is!&#160; No one knows more about your team mate then they do...so if you want to know:&#160; ASK.&#160; :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always say there&#39;s a reason God gave us TWO ears and ONE mouth&#8230;so we can spend TWICE as much time listening as we do talking!&nbsp; Learn to listen&nbsp;at your&nbsp;parties and you&#39;ll find that identifying your next hostesses or team members gets REALLY easy.&nbsp; They&nbsp;are actually &quot;telling&quot; you exactly why they need your opportunty or to have a party if your listening.&nbsp; Doing too much talking creates confusion and a confused mind will shut down and say &quot;NOOOOOO!&quot;&nbsp; So listen&#8230;you&#39;ll probably be shocked at what you can learn (and sometimes things you didnt want or need to know) at a party!<br />
In regards to coaching with your team&#8230;I love the phrase &quot;BE CURIOUS.&quot;&nbsp; Get curious and ask questions!&nbsp; I do it all the time&#8230; and actually use those words:&nbsp; &quot;I&#39;m curious&#8230;how many parties is a full schedule for you?&nbsp; I&#39;m curious, what is you average show attendence?&nbsp; I&#39;m curious, what is your heart telling yo to do?&quot;&nbsp; See how easy that is!&nbsp; No one knows more about your team mate then they do&#8230;so if you want to know:&nbsp; ASK.&nbsp; <img src='http://julieannejones.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I use that method as well, Janette.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I use that method as well, Janette.</p>
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