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Action is the Key in Your Direct Sales Business

Friday, May 20th, 2011

I start out my live direct sales trainings with a story. It's about a man who is very devout and believes in the power of prayer. He just has one simple prayer: "God, please let me win the lottery." He prays that prayer every single day for five years. He doesn't win. He keeps praying. He doesn't win. He keeps praying.

Finally, at the end of the fifth year, he's had it. He makes a declaration to God: "If I don't win the lottery tonight, I'm done! I'll go out and start spreading the news that you are NOT an awesome God and that you don't answer prayers." And suddenly, the heavens open up and he hears a booming voice say, "Help me out. BUY A TICKET!"

It's a funny story with a wickedly serious point. Most direct sellers follow a similar plan. They get lots of training, have great ideas and intentions, make to-do lists, even create schedules and make a business plan of some sort.

But here's what I've noticed, first in my years as an active direct seller and subsequently as a direct sales trainer and coach. The difference between wildly successful direct sellers and those who are either mildly successful or fail is extremely simple. Successful direct sellers do all of the above, and then they do one more crucial thing.

They take action.

See, I told you it was simple. All of the great ideas, training, planning, and intentions in the world won't bring you a hill of beans if you don't DO SOMETHING with them. Some of the smartest, brightest, most mediocre people I know could be great if they just took action. Success takes effort. No matter how badly you want something, if you don't actually act, unless you're extremely lucky, you probably won't get it.

And expecting it without taking action is like hoping to win the lottery without buying a ticket. You would never even consider doing something that crazy, right?

There are dozens of inspired (and inspiring) direct sellers who just took SERIOUS ACTION and enrolled in my Direct Sales Virtual Academy.  A huge shout out to them. It was a major leap of faith for each and every one of them and I'm quite simply humbled by their commitment to themselves and their businesses and the part I get to play in helping them succeed. I know what's coming for all of them through this Academy, as they continue to take action, and it gives me goose bumps.

In case you missed it and aren't sure what the heck a Direct Sales Virtual Academy even is, you can listen to the webinar replay from yesterday and find out (along with some great action steps to take right now in your direct sales business) here.

So what action will you take TODAY that will begin to move you toward the brilliant success you've been planning on achieving in your direct sales business?

What, exactly, will you do? (Feel free to share below. I'm dying to know!)

 

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Sometimes You Have to Say “No”

Thursday, February 10th, 2011

I got an e-mail from my friend and client Dawn last month. Here’s what she said:

"I have a horrible time saying no to people when they ask something of me. This year, you have inspired and empowered me to say no! I have a friend who owns a coffee shop and she is going out of town. She and her husband on 2 separate occasions have asked me to cover the shop for them. I told them, thanks for thinking of me, I will have to check my schedule and get back to them. I confirmed my gut reaction of no by checking my priorities and goals (including being intentional with all that I do in 2011) and I then told them no!

In the past not only have I said yes but then they conveniently forgot to pay me or even say thank you, so I know this is the correct path for me! Thank you for all that you do for not only me but the thousands of others out there."

I wanted to share this with you because my experience in working with thousands of women direct sellers over the past 12 years is that all of us (and I include myself in that) sometimes have a difficult time saying no. Often times that leads us to say yes when we shouldn’t, we regret it, and worse, resent the person who asked when we find the harmony in our life suffering because of the commitment.

That’s really not fair to the person to whom you said yes. Now you’re probably blaming them for something you got yourself into when, in reality, it would have been better to have just said no right up front so they could find someone who truly felt good about taking on the task.

That being said, I have a list of questions I run a request through before I say yes to it and I thought I’d share it with you. The key to using this effectively is to make sure you do what Dawn did – don’t say yes right away. Tell the person making the request that you’ll need to check your schedule and get back to them. Then use these questions to determine if saying yes is in everyone’s best interest.

  1. Will taking on this request upset the harmony in my life, business, and family?
  2. If so, is it important enough for me to CHOOSE to do that?
  3. Can I say yes and really feel good about taking on this task?
  4. What EXACTLY will it cost me if I say yes to this request? (Think in terms of time, resources, stress, etc.)

If I answer yes to the first question and no to either of the second two questions, I tell the person requesting my help that I have to decline because I can’t commit myself or my time to do the job they deserve for the task. Question number 4 is really important (and be SPECIFIC), because when you answer it you may realize that, even if you answered yes to the other questions, the cost is just too great.

So, to review, NEVER say yes up front, run the request through those 4 questions, and then get back to the person in a timely manner with a well thought out, appropriate response that keeps everyone’s best interest at heart.


 

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Direct Sales Phone Follow Up – Make It A Conversation

Wednesday, January 12th, 2011

When was the last time you had a phone conversation with a friend or relative? I'm betting it was very recent, possibly even today. Women love to talk on the phone. So, keeping that in mind, consider these questions:

  • Do you ever call your friend for a chat and then get offended if she doesn't pick up the phone, making all sorts of assumptions about why she's avoiding you?
  • Do you get nervous about calling your husband and asking him to make a stop for you on the way home from work?
  • Ever have to "psych" yourself up to pick up the phone to call your best buddy?

No on all accounts, right? Why do you suppose that is? I'm guessing it's because you don't tell yourself any lies about how they don't really want to hear from you or you're bothering them so you better not call. In short, you believe they want to hear from you and it's going to be a great experience, so it is. That, and you usually have no agenda when you have a simple, friendly conversation over the phone, so there's no need to worry about any of the above.

Wouldn't it be amazing if you could translate that ease and freedom to your business calls? What if you made those calls simple conversations, just like a chat with your best friend? What if you had no agenda other than to engage, relate, listen, and share on those calls? Do you think your results might change. I'm guessing the answer is yes.

So, here's a simple challenge. Before you pick up the phone to book your next party or follow up on a sponsoring lead, stop and pretend that you're calling someone you know to have a casual conversation. If you show up that way, it just may put you at ease and make the whole conversation much better for everyone.



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Julie Anne Jones is a direct sales corporate consultant, coach, and trainer, and the CEO of Julie Anne Jones, Inc. She is known for her authentic and easy-to-use scripting and specializes in specific language and tools for success in direct sales. To learn more about Julie Anne and her products and services, and to read her weekly blog posts, visit her at www.julieannejones.com.