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Dealing With Team Members Who Don’t Respect Your Time?

Thursday, February 9th, 2012

I get lots of questions from direct sellers through my social media channels every week, and once in a while I come across one that I think would make a great blog post. That happened last month.

Here's the question (and I'm guessing this could sound familiar to just about every direct sales leader out there):

"I am a leader of a growing direct sales team. For the most part, things are running smoothly and most are working their businesses. I enjoy being a leader, but I have a team member who is draining me. How do you deal with someone who doesn't respect your time? She calls non-stop for questions that could easily wait, and if I don't answer she immediately follows with a text and Facebook message and won't stop until I acknowledge her. I know as a leader I am responsible for making sure she knows what she needs to know to succeed in her business, but we're talking minor questions that are not THAT urgent.

I've told her multiple times that I do not answer my phone on Sundays so I can spend one day with my family uninterrupted, but that doesn't stop her. I'm not a mean person (I'm really not). I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable or embarrassed by saying something but at the same time, I need her to know I cannot be available 24/7. Any suggestions on how to handle a situation like this"?

Here's my answer:

"You have choices here and it sounds to me like you've forgotten that. If you stop responding to her, she'll get the message and stop bothering you. It's not a big deal to ignore a text or delete an e-mail. Let her know that part of your job as a leader is to teach her to be resourceful and take responsibility for her own business so that she can lead others in the same way you lead her.

To that end, set up a once a week, 15 minute appointment with her and let her know you won't be available for the rest of the week unless it's an emergency. And then (and here's the hard part), STICK TO YOUR GUNS! I guarantee you, if you stop responding, she'll get the message and start thinking for herself. It's not your responsibility to be at her beck and call and you do owe your team a duplicatable leader. Answering every single question from every single representative on your team immediately is totally unrealistic, and it isn't duplicatable.

So set the ground rules clearly with this consultant, and then stick to your end of the bargain. There's nothing mean about that and it shouldn't feel uncomfortable or make you feel guilty."

Setting boundaries is always hard, especially for women. We tend to have a strong drive to nurture, and we want to make sure everyone is happy and succeeding. If you're a leader, please get this…the success or failure of your team members is not your responsibility. Take a deep breath and just let that settle. You cannot make someone else succeed, no matter how much you want to. All you can do (and all you're responsible to do) is to give them the information they need and then support them in partnership as they take action, take responsibility, and step up to the plate for themselves. The more you understand this, the more effective you'll be (and the happier your life will become).

And just to wrap this post up nicely, here's the response I received from her just last week:

"I took your advice and stopped answering every time she called. She got the point! Not only that, she's figured out how to be self sufficient :-) Thanks again for your help!"

And by the way, if you have questions about your direct sales business, please head over to my Facebook Fan Page, "Like" the page, and post them on the wall there. I'm there all day every Monday (at least) and am very happy to support you with a little advice if I can. Plus, you'll benefit from some of the other brilliant questions and answers that are posted there each week even when you don't have a question of your own.


 


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Own Your Power As A Direct Seller!

Thursday, January 19th, 2012

I've noticed a mentality in the direct sales population that bothers me. It's almost like the scene from the musical "Oliver" where Oliver goes to Fagan with his bowl in his hands, his head down, and in a timid voice asks, "Can I have some more please?" It's like we're constantly asking for favors, begging people to support us ("Would you book a party with me, please?").

I swear, my single-minded purpose in all my trainings is to vanquish this mentality. It doesn't serve you! At the end of every single live event I do, I say the same thing. It sounds something like this:

"Every single one of you in this room has enormous value. As a woman (about 99.9% of my audiences consist of women. If you're a man reading this, just insert 'man'), as a representative for your company, as a business owner I want you to really get your value and to own your power. When you do a party for a host, she's getting great value from you. Not just a bunch of free products, but an opportunity (provided by you) to get together with her friends, do something for herself, and create an experience. That gives you the right to ask for a commitment in return from her. The more you own that power and show up for yourself, the more she'll respect you and show up for you as well"

When you really get this concept, internalize it and truly believe it, it's much easier to "show up for yourself" in your life and business. A great example of not owning their value I see all the time are representatives sacrificing their value with hosts. When I was doing parties for a living, I didn't book a home party with just anyone. Unless a host was willing to meet with me within a week of booking her party for about 20 minutes either over the phone or in person to plan her party, I wasn't willing to give her a date on my calender. Why? Think about it. If a host won't give you 20 minutes of her time within a week of booking, you have no business thinking she'll put any effort whatsoever into the actual party she's throwing for you!

That's what owning your value does. It makes you think in these terms. Take a look around at your next national convention at the executives (those at the top of the compensation plan - the leaders) in your company. I can guarantee you, they're all owning their value and being respected in return because of it. You can see it when they walk in a room. I can pick out the leaders in the room without even knowing who they are just because they have this quality, this ownership of their value and their power.

And the beauty of this concept is this. When you start owning your value and respecting yourself, your time and your business, others magically start to do the same thing. I promise!

So own your power and understand the great value you have to offer those in your life and business. I think you're amazing, you should too!



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If you're a direct sales leader with any size team at all, you've probably found yourself wondering who gets your time and how you stay connected with everyone on your team without losing your own life, business, or mind! The truth is, different people on your team will earn your time at different levels. No matter how big your team is, you need to figure out how to stay connected with everyone, and how to decide who qualifies for your one on one attention.

I recently supported a Virtual Academy client in defining this for herself. She was feeling overwhelmed by the demands on her time and guilty for not giving everyone on her team her personal attention. The problem was, she had a team of over 100 people. To begin with, I helped her see that her expectations on herself were unrealistic. Then I outlined a three tiered system for first categorizing the members of her team, and then staying connected based on their place in her organization.

I'd like to share this simple system with you. It may support you if you often find yourself in the same boat as my client.

Tier #1 – Big Picture

This category is for anyone on your team who is breathing. Stop laughing, I'm not kidding. If they've signed up and paid their money, even if they've never even done a party, they need some attention from you. This tier truly encompasses your entire team and the communication at this level is equally as broad. It's a "one to many" approach. In other words, you reach them all in one action. It could be as simple as a monthly e-mail, mailed newsletter, e-zine, or conference call that's got basic training, recognition, and news from your home office. It's something that won't take much of your time but is important.

Tier #2 – Potential

This tier is for those representatives on your team who are working their business at some consistent level. They could be hobbyists or potential business builders but right now they're just consistently working. They need a little more input from you in order to step up and succeed at a higher level, but they aren't earning your one on one time yet.

Your communication here needs to allow them some access to you personally without spending a lot of one on one time coaching them. You could set up a private Facebook Group, post helpful articles there once a week or so, and answer questions a few times a week (if not daily). Again, this allows you to support several people at once without committing a lot of one on one time to them. I would open this group up to your entire organization. Those who are active there are the ones who may move into the next tier. If you choose, you could communicate and support them via e-mail but BE CAREFUL. You don't want them to have instant, all day access to you. Set up a special e-mail folder that you only check (at most) once a day.

Tier #3 – Personal

This is truly your elite tier. Those who get your time and energy in this tier are your true business builders. They are the individuals on your team who are showing up and working consistently and who have set goals and are taking action to move toward them. These are the handful of people you want to work with on weekly coaching calls and invite to come with you to your parties. These would also include your brand new representatives.

This is a very simple concept, but if you look at the list of people on your team (whether that's 10 or 1000), you should be able to easily separate the personal from the other two groups and possibly identify some potentials who could become personals at some point in the future. Most importantly, it lets you lose any guilt about who you should be giving your time to because you're consistently doing something for every tier to make sure they're getting the support they're earning.

One final thing. If you think of the hours you have in a week like a pie that you slice up, the first two tiers should take up no more than twenty-five to thirty percent of your pie, and the rest of it should be spent in the third tier. Make sure you take a hard look at how you're slicing up your pie and make adjustments if you need to.

So, I'm curious. Does this make sense to you and is it at all similar to what you're currently doing?



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