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eviteDuring my live "Direct Sales is Easier Than You Think" training, I talk about the importance of a great invitation for your parties. One of the questions that seems to always come up is "Do I have to mail out an invitation or can I just use e-vites or Facebook?" Great question.

Here's what I think. E-mail and social media are amazing. They're incredible tools for lots of the things I have to get done for my life and business every day. And they aren't perfect. How many times do you miss something you wre invited to on Facebook because the event invite got lost in your notifications or you never took the time to check it? And I know that multiple times a week I either hear from someone that they never got an e-mail I sent or I'm telling someone the same thing (usually because said e-mail ended up in a junk mail or spam folder and was inadvertently deleted). So, while I love these communication channels when they work, they just aren't as reliable as regular snail mail.

The other thing I know is that both Facebook and e-mail are not taken as seriously by those you're inviting as getting an invitation in the mail. Think about it. If you're taking your mail out of your mail box and interspersed between all of those envelopes with windows in the front (you know the ones…they require that you write a check as a response), there's a colored envelope with a hand written or plain typed label in the address section. Which envelope are you going to open first? The one that looks like more fun, right?

Finally, if you as a direct sales/party plan representative take the step of mailing out your party plan host's invitations for them, you're getting the mailing list of their addresses from your host. This provides a few important things for you:

  • First of all, the task the host tends to hate the most is coming up with who to invite and addressing those labels. Once you have that list, the likelihood that she'll actually hold the party on the original date goes way, way up because that task is behind her.
  • Secondly, once you have the list, it's like having an insurance policy for their party. In the event that they decide to cancel within about 10 days to 2 weeks prior to their party, your response can be, "Oh, I already mailed your invitations." (and then get them in the mail that day if you haven't mailed them). Now they either have to call everyone and cancel or call everyone and confirm the party. I found that most of the time, it was easier to just go ahead and hold the party.
  • So having the list equals fewer cancellations. Isn't that a nice bonus!

Here's the bottom line. Do I think you should use e-vites and Facebook events to spread the word about your home parties? Absolutely! Do I think you should move to an e-vite only policy and rely solely on that method for getting invitations into the hands of your guests? Not on your life. Use them as a secondary reminder method that goes hand in hand with the invitation you've mailed.

So, what do you think?




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The Best Laid Plans…

Tuesday, October 18th, 2011

It happens to everyone, no matter how good you are at host coaching and follow up. Sometimes you show up for a home party and there are only a few people sitting in your party host's living room. The key to success when this happens to you is the way you handle this situation. Here are a few things you will want to consider:

Your Host Feels Worse Than You Do

In most cases, this situation is your host's worst nightmare. It's happened to me recently. I had a home party last month and a list of about 7 "yeses" prior to the party. Then the day of the party my phone started ringing, Facebook messages started rolling in, and people started bailing on me for one reason or another. Up until thirty minutes after the party started, I was getting text messages with people saying they weren't going to make it. I had done all the things a good host is supposed to do and still had two people sitting in my living room when the party eventually started. I felt awful but it was totally out of my control.

As a consultant, your job is to make sure your host understands that you completely understand and that it's okay with you (and make it okay with you). You have a choice in this situation to either get frustrated or to accept what's happening. I promise, the latter will bring you much better results).

Your Guests Are Uncomfortable

Generally, your guests pick up on the stress of the situation. They are also much more "exposed" because there are so few of them. The best thing you can do is put everyone at ease by naming the elephant in the living room. Say something like this: "So, we're a small but fun group tonight and I actually love parties like this because it gives me a chance to interact with you all in a more informal way and to give you some one on one attention. Let me cover just a few details and then we'll just relax and play with the products." That way no one feels weird or worried that you're upset, and everyone can relax and enjoy each other's company.

Be Flexible and Willing to Adapt Your Presentation

Depending upon how you normally do your presentation, you may or may not have to adapt for a smaller group. Obviously, if you play a game that requires six people and you only have three, that's not going to work. Consider scrapping some of the more interactive and group-participation parts of your presentation and do a shortened version that just hits the highlights (how to book a party with you, your opportunity commercial, and the details of how to order), and then spend your time working with the few guests who are there one on one or in a small, informal group. Encourage them to interact with you and your products and to ask questions. I often times found that these parties ended up having a better outcome for me in sales, bookings, and sponsoring results because of the interactive dynamic of the smaller group.

Make Sure Your Back Up Systems Are In Place Before The Party

This is really important. Are you coaching your hosts to get outside orders before their parties? If so, you're showing up to potentially several hundred dollars in outside orders before you even unpack your kit. Then, if the turnout is less than stellar, you still have at least a qualifying party and your host still gets some of the host benefits. Make sure you're reminding her when you follow up before her party to get those outside orders (with payment) nailed down before her party.

Sometimes the best laid plans do go awry, and when that happens, you have to adjust. The more open you are to what good can come out of the experience, the more good you'll take away from it. And just for the record, my party with two people ended up being a $1500.00 night for the consultant. She made the best of it, did a great job, gave my guests a great experience, and I got a ton of 1/2 priced items. Bottom line, it was a win-win for all of us.



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We're heading into the most busy and lucrative time of year in the direct selling industry. I always loved the fall because the products were fun and I was doing lots of home parties (which I also loved). The thing I loved most about doing home parties was how much fun it was to be a part of the group. I loved creating an experience for my host and her friends that brought everyone together. Part of that experience relies on the host having a party full of fun guests. That's always important, but during the fall it's essential, because so much of your income for the year comes from those parties.

So the million dollar question is, how do you support your host in filling up her living room with guests?

Here are five of my best ideas:

  1. Make sure your hosts chooses a theme. I always ask participants at my live events, "Would you rather attend a bread and water party or a Mexican Fiesta?" Get it? A theme says "Come party with me" not "come to my house and spend money."
     
  2. Create and send a fun, compelling invitation that features that theme. And no, your company's simple post card invitations really don't count. Honestly, think of your reaction the last time you received a post card invitation in the mail to another home party. How excited were you to attend? See what I mean. (You can download our "Margaritaville" themed invitation for free on our free tools page on the website here).
     
  3. Create a relationship with your host prior to her party. Host coaching is the key to success in the party plan business. Period. Your host will work hard at promoting your party and making it a success if she feels a connection with you and likes you. And a nice added perk to host coaching is that, if you're offering your opportunity to your host as part of that experience, you'll generally sponsor 1 out of every five to seven hosts.
     
  4. Give your host clear instructions. This is so important. I say all the time people won't open their mouths if they don't know what to say. And I've found that people generally do what they're told. So give your host a goal to make follow up calls at least two days prior to her party and do a little role playing that shares some enthusiastic language about how much fun the theme is going to be so she knows what to say. Some consultants even take on this task for their hosts. Just make sure it's getting done.
     
  5. Follow-up often. Believe it or not, your party isn't as big a priority for your host as it is for you. And you want them to understand that you're there to support them. So, make a follow up call about a week prior to the party just to touch bases and share your excitement for her upcoming party. Then follow up at least two days prior to the party to remind her to make follow-up calls and the day before the party to make final plans.

The bottom line is, you hopefully have more parties booked from September through November than any other time of the year, and it's up to you to give your host the tools she needs to fill up those parties so you get the results you want, for her and yourself. The host is the catalyst, so take some time to think about how you support her and to implement some of the five tips above. And if you've got a great tip for filling up your parties with enthusiastic guests, I'd love to hear it.



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