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The Way You Motivate Yourself Matters

Thursday, March 1st, 2012

Motivation is the key to success in direct sales, as in pretty much anything. If you're not feeling motivated, it makes it hard to take action, and without action, your goals remain unfulfilled. But did you know that certain types of motivation can actually hinder rather than help you?

Let me explain. You may have heard me say (or read on this blog before) that energy flows where attention goes.

If you're motivated by what you don't want to occur or what you're afraid will happen if you don't take action, you're focused on moving away from that vision, and often times the action you take is more difficult because of it. There's no joy in running away from something, or feeling like you have to keep moving just to stay ahead of what you're afraid might happen. And since everything starts in thought before it becomes form, think about what you're creating when you're motivated by what you don't want. By activating a picture (and usually a feeling) of what you don't want in your subconscious, and then moving away from it so that it won't happen, you're actually creating it and giving it strength.

If, on the other hand, you can create a very clear picture of what you do want, decide how it would look, sound, and feel to have it, and then start moving toward that goal, the action is motivated by a completely different feeling and picture. It feels good to move in a positive direction toward something that you want. That makes the actions you take much easier. Plus, when you're focusing your energy on what you want, you activate the Law of Attraction. I find when I can very clearly do this, the people, circumstances, and even solutions I have no idea are out there seem to find me. Simply by clearly focusing on my goal and visualizing how I'll feel once I have it.

Here are a few examples of mindset shifts you can make that will shift your motivation from moving away from to moving toward:

Change from: "I don't want to be broke and I have to be able to pay off my debt" to "I'm abundant and I know money is flowing to me as I work toward my business goals."

Change from: "I have to get more bookings or my business is going to dry up" to "I am a booking magnet and I love doing parties for all of my excited hosts."

Change from: "I'll never get everything on my to do list done. I have to work harder and longer to make it happen" to "I love taking positive action every single day with a clear plan and path to what I want to achieve."

It feels like magic and it may seem too simple, but it's really just an intentional way of opening up the flow (I call it unkinking the hose), getting out of your own way, and allowing what you need to flow to you.

One last thing. The quickest way to begin to shift from moving away from what you don't want to moving toward what you do want is to feel the feelings of already having whatever it is that you want. Just close your eyes for ten seconds a day and feel the amazing feelings of already having whatever goal you've set for yourself. As if it was real, right now. If you do nothing else and just do that, you'll be amazed at what starts to happen in your life and business.



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Video Blog: Don’t Quit

Tuesday, February 28th, 2012

The key to success is perseverance. If you just keep going, chances are good you'll make it.

 

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Just Be Yourself

Thursday, February 23rd, 2012

Flower_faces"Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken." ~ Oscar Wilde

I was coaching one of my virtual academy members last week and she reminded me of a story I want to share with you. She asked me how she should answer potential representatives who saw her dynamic personality during her shows and felt intimated by it. She said her parties were fun and crazy and that her personality was a little outrageous. I could definitely relate to that.

As I shared in a blog post last month, when I was a direct sales leader, I always took team members and new recruits with me to my home parties whenever possible. I'll never forget one night when one of my top consultants accompanied me to a party. I'm sure it won't surprise you to know that I'm no shrinking violet and my party presentation reflected my personality. I was pretty funny and a little crazy and I always had a great time during my presentation. This night was no exception.

As we drove home that night, my consultant seemed too quiet. I asked her if everything was okay and she looked at me and said, "I'm doing this wrong." Now, remember, she was one of my top producers, with consistently high sales, recruiting, and booking numbers. I wasn't sure I wanted her to change a thing, so I asked her, "What makes you say that?" She answered, "Because I don't do my parties at all like you do. I just walk in, spread the product out on the table, and sit down with a beverage and chat with the guests. I do my commercials but it's much more laid back."

This consultant was fairly quiet and somewhat shy, so that didn't surprise me. And I immediately encouraged her to keep doing exactly what she's been doing. For her to try to do my party in my way would be a disaster. Did I want her to incorporate the duplicatable tools I was using (like my introduction, commercials, and closing)? Absolutely. But she had to do that while still being herself. To try to be anything else wouldn't work.

That's the point I always made with the guests at my home parties who told me they could never do what I did because they weren't like me. I'd look at them and say, "I agree. There's only one of me and that's a blessing! I think the earth might spin off it's axis if there were another crazy me out there, don't you! So no, you couldn't do this like me, but when you start your business, I'll help you find a way for your party presentation to reflect your personality, just like my presentation reflects mine."

So, if you tend to be a more reserved person, find a way to do a laid back party. It can still be interactive, fun, and duplicatable without feeling like you're being pushy or using any "gimmicks" to get your point across. No matter what, trust yourself and your intuition and be yourself. You're amazing and I guarantee, the more "you" you put into your presentation, the more people will love and connect with you.



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You may, as long as you do not alter it and include the following information (with active links as appropriate)

Julie Anne Jones is a direct sales corporate consultant, coach, and trainer, and the CEO of Julie Anne Jones, Inc. She is known for her authentic and easy-to-use scripting and specializes in specific systems, language, and tools for success in direct sales. To learn more about Julie Anne and her products and services, and to read her weekly blog posts, visit her at www.julieannejones.com.