An interesting thing happened to me this week. I’ve actually worked fewer hours and gotten more done. Let me explain how this happened.
I belong to a mastermind group of like-minded women entrepreneurs. We meet over the phone on Monday mornings. Every week, we have to tell the group where we need support. This last Monday, I said I was feeling overwhelmed, like I would never have a chance to do everything on my to do list. They challenged me put myself first (because when I get busy, self care is the first thing to go). I (reluctantly and sceptically) made the committment to do that.
Tuesday morning I woke up, meditated for 30 minutes, read a chapter in each of the self development books I’m currently reading (Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich and John Assaraf’s The Answer), wrote in my journal, and worked out. I did all that before I ever walked into my office and turned on my computer. I did it in spite of the huge to do list I knew was waiting for me for the day. And I did it while ignoring my whiney ego, which kept screaming in my ear “YOU BETTER GET INTO THAT OFFICE! YOU’RE GOING TO LOSE IT ALL!”
I didn’t get into my office until almost 10:00 Tuesday morning. I was peaceful and centered and completely shocked at 4:00 when everything on my to do list had been checked off. How did that happen with three less hours of work than usual? I’ve repeated this routine every morning this week, and have had one of the most productive weeks of my life.
What’s the lesson? For me, it’s self care before business. That’s my new mantra. Because I’ve learned that when I take care of myself and I take the time to get focused on the energy that I plan to bring into my day, everything I need to accomplish my goals “magically” shows up and aligns with that energy.
My challenge to you? Give yourself the gift of self care starting tomorrow morning. You don’t have to take an hour and a half like I do (although it’s worth getting up earlier than usual for, I promise). Even if you just carve out fifteen minutes to sit and be quite before you start working, that’s a great start. And you’ll notice that the dividends it will pay in your business could be huge!
P.S. And don’t listen to your ego. It specializes in lies, lies, lies!









Absolutely, Barbara! I’m getting through two books I’ve wanted to read for months. Glad you’re feeling inspired!
Hi Julie – congrats on this new discovery and I too find it to be very inspiring. Another benefit I’m sure you’re enjoying is probably getting to those books, right?! I have a HUGE stack I’ve been wanting to get to – maybe this is just the inspiration I need to make it happen. Thanks, Julie!
Helen and Maggie – wow, thanks for sharing. I’m humbled that I’ve made an impact in your lives today and I’d love to hear about how this change in your routine supports you!
Thanks Julie Anne,
I really needed this today. I have been running so crazy for so long that I can’t remember the last time I really took time for me. My life and my business are suffering for it. You have inspired me to put self care at the top of my list.
Hi Julie Anne,
Thank you so much for sharing your journey & personal experience. You’ve inspired me to start putting self care before business too!
Thanks Annie, Shanna and Dawn for the comments. I will tell you that it hasn’t necessarily been the easiest thing to do this week and I’ve had to really discipline myself to stay away from my office and my computer until my self care is complete, but the payoff is so worth the discipline it’s taken to make it happen.
I LOVE IT! I’ve been telling myself I’m going to do this and every day I just get up and start doing what needs to be done. At the end of the day I’m exhausted and wondering why I didn’t have time to do everything. I think this was the message I so needed to hear today.
Thankyou!
Hi Julie Anne!
Thank you for sharing this and reminding us all that we really do need to get our priorities in order to be our very best!
Shanna
Julie,
Thank you so much for sharing… I have been watching you on FB regarding this and this blog entry ties it all together for me. I HAVE to start doing this. Thank you for the encouragement and affirmation that it is the right thing to do.
Dawn